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Questions and Answers
Can you check on a cheating spouse?
How to check on a cheating spouse ?
Here are few ways you can catch a cheating spouse:
- Take notes on his routine and look for patterns. Example: they’re all of a sudden working late every Thursday night.
I live in the State of California, I do not know if it is legal to spy on my hubby’s cellphone without getting into trouble and I do not want to pay for a service just to see if he is cheating?
Can you help me find out if he is cheating and with whom? I have attempted: I attempted checking his cellphone but he put a thumb print access on it. I think it was caused by: He says it’s because of my older children and me helping them all the time. My three grandchildren live with us, ages 13, 7, and Five which he agreed to, now he is telling it’s too much, but his 74 year old father also lives with us which he has no problem with
California requires two-party consent, which means you would need his consent for a spy app. If he finds it, you could be prosecuted. Such a restricted access to his phone could be so that the children do not use his phone, however, you should ask him to unlock the phone in front of you and permit you to check it if he has nothing to hide.
Is there any way to find out without joining these social media sites?
I know my spouse has been having some pretty strange text messages at odd hours and I have seen that he is on several different social media sites. I believe he is cheating but he has his phone and computer on lock down. He hasn’t touched me in months. I feel in my soul something is wrong but I do not want to confront him about this. Would just like to know so I can budge on if that is the way it is. We have been married for 1 year and I would like to have peace of mind over this. If he is cheating, I would rather let him go than to live this way.
Instead of snooping, talk to him and ask him outright if he is looking elsewhere for love. He may just be thinking he is innocently flirting online but he is undoubtedly beginning to alienate his affections in your marriage. Snooping can often be far more painful as you see what has been said and done very first arm. Also, some dudes, when confronted, will tell you the truth, while many others will turn it back on you, attempting to make you feel guilty for even suspecting. Sadly, this tactic often works. Observe his eyes when you ask him.
Gut feeling he is being moody and arguing for no reason. Caring for his appearance and getting muscles he never had, and a big belly, now he has a real buff chest?
His appearance has switched, he doesn’t call me, yet his phone is always busy or it goes to voice mail
He is focusing on himself more than ever before. There may be someone else involved, however, it could just be that he is self-improving just for himself. Be aware that often when people have big physical switches, they feel like they can all of a sudden spread their wings and fly.
Just want to know if my man is or has cheated?
He hides his phone always and keeps it on silent, he is always accusing me of cheating, he fights on purpose so I stay away. I have attempted: I have asked him and he accusing me again. I think it was caused by: He lives with his mum and I heard a lady was in his room in May this year
Those that are guilty will often assume the other person in the relationship is guilty because if they can cheat, you can cheat. If you heard a female in his room then something was going on – obviously. His distrust of you since then is further proof that something will happen or has already happened outside the relationship.
I found a text a while back, The woman thanked him for getting her off, he admitted it &, I thought things were good until I was online today &, he got message replying to what evidently were deleted messages by him
We live in Iberia, Missouri. Both women play Kings of Camelot with him. I have attempted: Asking him? Searching but he deletes &, hides things very well. I think it was caused by: I truly don’t know?
Some avid gamers can let the online game fantasy blur into their regular life. He did admit to you what happened, however, the suggestion would be to ask him to either block the women from contacting him within the game or stop playing the game totally. He is deleting and hiding postings before you can see them, so something is, in fact, going on that, he is afraid of you observing.
I need to know if he is answering his texts and phone calls?
I’ve been calling and texting my bf for Three days now and need to know if he is actually getting them and if he is talking to someone else
He is receiving them unless his phone has been off and you get voicemail each time instantly when you call. If you think he is talking to someone else you can attempt to install a remote spy app, albeit he will have to download a link or text message pic on his phone for the apps to work, so if he is disregarding you, the link may be overlooked as well. The best option is to speak to him in person. If he is disregarding you all of a unexpected he better have a truly good reason or else you should end the relationship.
Its my wifey, I caught her on her cellphone Trio times with this dude?
Just wished to know his location, she says it is an Ex beau who lives in Europe, but I think he lives in town. She won’t tell me his name, I have his cell number but he shut it off
Well if the phone number is a local number, then he is near you. Using a cellphone in another country comes with hefty fees so most people do not make several calls from their cellphone while on vacation unless it is of good importance or an emergency that can not wait until they get home. The thicker issue is that your wifey felt the need to speak with her ex three separate times, and not where he is located. Emotional affairs are far more bruising to a marriage. Embark by asking her why she felt the need to speak with her ex in the very first place.
I need help, please. I think my wifey may be unfaithful?
I think I am a victim here and I am in a big trouble, can you help?. I have attempted: Calling, texting, going over. I think it was caused by: Fresh man. I suppose
Sounds like she has in fact moved on. She cheated on you and walked away so you need to work on releasing her as well. It is raunchy to overcome being left by a cheating spouse but you will be able to have trust with someone else who is worthy of you. Before you leap into any relationship take some time to do some self-reflection. What were the reasons that your wifey could have possibly cheated? If you may have contributed to her cheating, consider what you could do to switch. Make sure that you are in the best emotional form.
Do you know if there are any petite spy cams that pick up audio as well as movie for 8 hours?
I am in live-in relationship and want to know if my bf is cheating. I can’t afford a private detective but want to know if my bf is cheating. If so, I will leave the relationship.
There are several spy cams on the market. They are sometimes called Babysitter cams. These record movie and audio and save it to an SD card or to a cloud. You can also look into setting up your laptop camera to record during that time, but he may notice the webcam is activated.
I need to know if she is hitting up other dudes?
She smells weird down stairs all of the unexpected and she is frightened to showcase me her phone. I have attempted: I’ve asked her. I think it was caused by: I don’t know maybe because she has issues
She may just have a non-STD infection and searched for what could cause it using her phone and does not want you to see. If she is speaking to other guys there would be other signs of her pulling away from you and blocks of her time would be left unexplained for example.
Can this work even in Tanzania?
I want to spy on someone’s text without them knowing
Spy apps work from most geographic locations.
He said he loves me and won’t leave me?
But he uses an app called ‘ARE YOU INTERESTED’ where there are many women and he never told me. I have attempted: I attempted to ask him. I think it was caused by: I don’t know
He may just be looking for outside praise from ladies online but this is still a dangerous behavior in a relationship.
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