Don’t do this. A big obstacle to finding love after 50 happens when you’re NOT putting yourself in places where you can be seen and found by available dudes on a DAILY BASIS!
Boys can’t find you when you’re hiding every night at home.
I know it feels excellent after a long day at work to snuggle up with a good book, your fave TV demonstrate or your cat or dog for some unconditional loving.
But you need exposure to fellows, whether in person or online and its not happening if this is your nightly routine.
No one is going to know you’re even available and even worse, they can’t find you.
Commence going out at night and on the weekends.
Go to restaurants with friends. Fellows are always there.
Take classes like golf. What man doesn’t love improving his golf sway and now they can do it year round at indoor and outdoor driving ranges.
Go to places like the library.
Dudes are there checking out books and movies every day.
The thing is single guys are everywhere. All you have to do is make sure you’re in places where the two of you can meet.
Have a vision that is too narrow when it comes to the kind of guys you are willing to date.
Ask most women what they want in a man and a type similar to Richard Gere’s character in “Pretty Woman” comes to mind.
He’s rich, sassy and has a heart.
Having been spoon fed on fairy tales as a little damsel can jade you to who a fine fellow might be- often providing you unrealistic expectations of who “Quality Boys” indeed are.
Stay open to dating all kinds of boys with all kinds of looks, backgrounds, and interests as long as they are economically self sufficient, meaning they can hold their own and won’t be financially dependent on you.
Of course, its nice to think of having a rich luxurious man sweep you off your feet but what you truly want is a man who is going to be there for you through the ups and the downs of this journey called life.
That man is a keeper!
Give up on dating after one or even five bad dates!
There is no doubt about it, without the right skill set and support in place, dating can be hard.
I train women all the time how to create a Finding Love after 50 Dating Blueprint that gives them their next step for finding love because I know how effortless it is to get bogged down by all there is to know about dating at this time in their life.
Just recall you don’t have to take a giant step to get out of dating frustration.
You can always take a look at the next steps down below to get some ideas if you’re feeling stuck.
Dating has a learning curve just like every fresh endeavor does.
Be persistent and consistent by having a plan in place for meeting quality fellows.
Have joy meeting fresh and interesting boys.
If they aren’t a romantic interest, consider making them your friend.
And instead of quitting when a date goes bad, chalk it up as being one more man closer to the real man you are looking for.
Understanding Guys is the thickest DO you can put on your list.
Most women treat boys as if they were women in studs’s figures.
The problem with that is dudes don’t relate to the language we speak and hear and they aren’t triggered by words like we are.
They are motivated by wanting to keep you safe and protected as your hero.
It took being told by two fellows that I wasn’t letting them be a man before the bell went off and I realized I was doing something wrong that was pushing fellows away.
Once I learned the language that studs speak and hear, my relationship with guys switched for the better both in my love life and professionally.